It's true. You shouldn't need someone else in your life to validate your confidence or self-worth. How can someone who doubts themself have anything to offer to a relationship? If you can't take care of yourself you won't be able to take care of anyone else either.
It's the best feeling I've felt to date, getting over someone I was madly in love with. When that time comes where you can stop Google searching the words "how to know if you're over someone" without recieving the reply, "when you don't have to look it up on the internet", you know you've found the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
Do not, I repeat, DO NOT, get into a rebound relationship. Imagine having a gaping hole on your arm. If you prod at it before it heals, it will only keep the wound open. This is an ideal metaphor for the gaping hole in your heart after the person you love shoves a steak knife through it. The rebound victim is merely the plaster you are trying to cover the whole with. And it will bleed straight through, I assure you.
Take time to yourself in this situation, to heal and find yourself again, the real you without the comprimises you have to make in order for a relationship to work.
I'm going to sleep alone tonight, without even a "goodnight" from a loved one, and for the first time in the last year of my life, I couldn't be happier about it.
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